Shaun Flores is a celebrated speaker, 4x TEDx speaker, mental health advocate, emerging author and consultant. His journey is a profound exploration of modern masculinity, charting the highs of extraordinary success in modelling and the depths of personal struggle. Shaun’s story is a testament to the complexities and resilience of masculinity in today’s world.
Shaun’s ascent in the modelling world was meteoric. He graced the covers of Vogue Italia, Uber, Papa John's, and many other globally renowned brands, earning fame and gaining financial success. His striking looks and captivating presence made him a sought-after figure in the industry. Yet, behind the polished exterior, Shaun grappled with a distorted self-image, struggling to meet the impossible standards of perfection.
What you see on the surface with Shaun is the opposite of what was happening inside. The pressure to maintain his image led Shaun down a perilous path. He starved himself, driven by the need to fit the mould imposed by society and the modelling industry. This period of his life was marked by intense scrutiny and an unrelenting pursuit of an unattainable ideal. Compounding his struggles was a pornography addiction, which exacerbated feelings of inadequacy and shame. These experiences highlighted the often-unseen battles many men face regarding their sense of self and masculinity.
Profound experiences from an early age shaped Shaun’s understanding of masculinity. The loss of his father on Christmas Day when he was just six years old left a profound and lasting impact on him. This early encounter with grief and the absence of a paternal figure played a significant role in his later challenges with OCD and ADHD, which went undiagnosed until a pivotal breakdown in 2022. Confronted with suicidal thoughts and overwhelming hopelessness, Shaun reached a critical juncture where he decided: “I am going to change the world.”
Determined to turn his pain into purpose, Shaun embraced a mission to redefine masculinity. He advocates for a version of manhood that includes vulnerability, emotional depth, and mental health awareness whilst still acknowledging the important and relevant parts of manhood. His work spans educational institutions, corporate settings, and public speaking platforms, where he shares his journey and insights with diverse audiences.
Shaun’s story powerfully reminds us of the importance of addressing mental health within the context of masculinity. His advocacy is about overcoming personal demons and challenging societal norms and expectations that hinder men from seeking help and expressing their true selves. Shaun strives to create a world where the next generation of men can grow free from the constraints that once bound him by mentoring and supporting young individuals, particularly from diverse and economically disadvantaged backgrounds.
In the words of Carl Jung, “No tree, it is said, can grow to heaven unless its roots reach down to hell.” Shaun Flores embodies this truth, using his experiences to inspire and evoke change. His journey encourages others to embrace their vulnerabilities and find strength in their authentic selves, ultimately redefining what it means to be a man.
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